A parent's guide to student conduct

Jan 13, 2005 11:12 AM

good conduct begins at home

Every pupil should come to school ready to learn, and parents play a big part in getting them ready. Even before they start school, youngsters need to be prepared not just for reading and counting, but for appreciating rules and understanding limits. Children must learn to respect each other and the adults who teach them, to work cooperatively with classmates and to follow the instructions they receive.

As a parent, you teach and model thoughtful behavior at home. You demonstrate self-control in your own behavior, as well as sensitivity toward your children’s feelings through word and deed. Research shows that when parents show concern about how their children feel, children learn to think about the feelings of others. School rules, like home rules, are there to remind children about the right way to behave.

UFT workshop. The vast majority of our children come to school prepared to learn. They are eager and happy to be in school and know what it means to play — and learn — by the rules. Yet, instilling good behavior isn’t easy. One place you can turn for suggestions is the United Federation of Teachers. We offer workshops for parents on improving children’s self-discipline. Call the UFT at (212) 598-7787 for the current schedule.